Careful negotiations are skills we need to understand.

 So we are looking at communication.
Always difficult 
Encounters are part of our life blood and make us all valuable when we meet others. Listen to others.
Grow and develop with others 
No man is an island no man is a rock.

But when we have to adjust to others views we internally negotiate then open up discussion often observed by many. Hard negation stick then we have to be prepared to take time on learning about others.

Thoughts have to be placed into encounters before we process on building relationships. Conceptually we don't place lot of value on our encounters but happening all the time. From bus stop queue to the networking we do. From conversation at events like football match or deeper conversations in gatherings like Church.

Often see theological negotiations being major problem for discourse. Although essential so much disagreement often breakdown follows. Here feel negotiations are essential. In community youth work we have encounters with people who hold lots of power over groups of children and young people.

These are areas where we can't be uncareless The interest of others has to be at front of our relationship and discussion should show this. Encounters, developing relationship, and careful negotiations are skills we need to understand and constantly practice.