Good, should not, be left undone.

            Good, should not, be left undone.

Life is about journey that involves always relationships. Don’t want any to forget sometimes that includes people experiencing problems.

I heard something disturbed me about voluntary, youth project some lady new to volunteering with children and youths.

She has stated few times…” Since we stopped all trouble makers coming the Club lot better”…

If only LIFE could be that simple, any we don’t like, disagree with, problematic ones, those not in our social class or grouping. Or our ethnic grouping, age ways,You get the picture.

Biggest question for me is how did bunch of people get to running youth provision. 

East Riding got lot to answer for. Recognise this behaviour as quite cohesive. But when that person and Husband got around 9 failed marriages. Wonder honesty ,really do. What moral compass do they guide themselves by?

Cohesive behaviour been many decade journey. Got stuck in that place. Light can’t get through. Simply cannot shine here 

But something strange because others witness, comment about action plus behaviour. Too uncomfortable to challenge. Also something witnessed before. Project middle class ,’value platform’. Clothes, homes , shopping trends, leadership role in Church.

Seen this behaviour it's cohesive, hungry for power' that comes with discipline problem', people hurt damaged by this unprofessional conduct.

They get away with excluding others by projecting false ideals. ‘Look at us our nice manners.’

Those excluded for trivial behaviour get labelled further edged out. Problem behaviour such as what l've witnessed is recognised far bigger issue than might actually be. Issue children face, don’t get addressed.

But worse older adults who had track record ,themselves are broken damaged, relationships they develop, allow them to hide that away.

Own behaviour goes unchallenged. As the journey develops it continues. 

When l have forged relationships with so called ‘problem people', discovered two things. Often miscommunication is key factor. Behind problematic behaviour is behaviour we could exhibit.

They get away with excluding others by projecting false ideals. ‘Look at us our nice manners.