Aug 7, 2022

Old man with older gentleman


 An Oldman tied up his dog outside the shop. Struggles with the required list of cheaper things from pound stretcher.

A angry woman later, see the dog tied up, feels disturbed.


To all and any listening she points out the cruelty of action of old gent.

I watched

Clenched teeth and fist, "l hate cruelty"

Evangelically shouts to echo chamber gathering.

Targets shop, finds old gentleman, at till paying for his goods.

`How dare you leave a dog so long?`

I watched.

Others hassled the situation, after taking some abusive language.

Old Gentleman points out takes care of his dog. Visits vet. Dog was in no harm.

I had watched, anger, misinformed crowd, excited angry Woman made harmful accusations.

I spoke with the old gentleman.

He had been disturbed by word's, appreciate kinder words we exchanged.

Communication can be harmful.

It does not need to be.

There was no sharing

Wrongful word's expressed.

Falsehoods exchanged, mistrust grew quickly.

 no listening. 

Lack of control 

This was angry emotional voice, which sought control. This lack of control was useful tool to mask ,what was really going on with the angry old woman. She played game in public. Seeking conformation of her role, protector. 

While echo chamber danced to tune which she played. By supporting her they did what counsellors identify..as strokes. Confirmed her view, supported her outburst. Wondered how many time has she done something like this. As it was so public. Asking myself and you of course. 

Was it an expression she uses in home life.?

Like to watch people exchange communication. Learning from conversation and exchange.


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