`A good local pub has much in common with a church,
except that a pub is warmer and there’s more conversation,’

Sometimes as l learned today, comments can cause tonnes of issues, we are not always aware of..
social media comments.
Shock from others around words.
Desire to be kind and generous 
Must also be reflected on social media
There is a `write and run` method by computer warriors
main trouble with IT as `sounding board` is this 

it is just that a sounding board

ignores all the other nuances that arrive with spoken words...

how 

you

doing