Tried to understand the brokenness of a person experiencing critical illnesses.
But fact is that, cannot any more.
Honesty they say is a virtue a value we praise. But feel guilt, truth is cannot cope with anothers illness further poor health.
Become something of a emotional punch bag, to their abusive nature, false accusations, sharpness of tongue.
As 'counsellor'!, guidelines offer advice around time with hurt person. We need to seek own counsel, find own protection, move away and retreat. Little support for non practioner even in field. But family members cannot carry the weight.
You can expect,you must, should allow others do some lifting.
Going to be pain,maybe legal threshold for other service providers.
Not walking over to the other side.
No matter what this feels like.
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