Invite those not invited to sit at the table.

36 times in the scripture it says to love the stranger.
 Love the stranger because you were once strangers.

Accept that faith may have been bastardised and your copy needs you to Praxis the habits,
Try to be an individual,
but try also to be societal .
Present and  formed in large part of the activities and customs
at times you may be part of monastic character 
reflect life look for those on the edges and not invited

U2 sang they still havn`t found what they were looking for

It not an evangelical song nor is it about call to faith it not a song or statement for the lost.it about a person and the faith journey they are on . .They still got so much to discover in the journey but this they have found,`they believe in the kingdom come and the person who came`.
The Others (lost).. have not searched and found no interest in Christianity...simply In 2016 they are not searching. The Church and those of the Christian faith need to accept that many are no longer looking! Modern life prevents many from engaging with spiritual migration. They are not leaving Faith or rejecting message nor are they rejecting Christian faith.

 They (the many) are simply not engaging.