Jun 11, 2015

emotional numbness literaly true

"They start going to the pub, block feelings, hide feelings', drink, Then do it more, and it becomes'a cycle."
Emotional literacy damages these and the close family friends,
to often in our locality, people shy away from comments
do manly things.
l know someone who is in the allotement shed from 05.30 in the morning till late at nite.
then he returns home to his `warmed` up tea
Plus bit of TV with wife.
Sad.
I know plenty live like this
Walking alone
often Cig in mouth,looking down.
wlaking the staffie, `easy son` as they pull the beast closer on the lead.
The sons of such men often are the same walking and acting tough.
But unable to forge deep relationships,devolop meanings,nor hold conversations
Education and schooling not seen as important,
Interests often dogs,fishing,allotments,footie,crack with alcohol.Pool hall.
Despite interventions often best suited to own company
own thoughts
own ideals
own processes

Expectations and horizons limited to the immedite desires.

Numbness floats into the brain,mind and projected in the body.

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